OBSESSION OF PERFECTION

Perfection in life is very important. It can be only done when we learn our responsibilities and how we pursue toward them. Perfection may lead us to an ideal life if we take it in right pattern. Studies of various Anthropologists shown us that civilizations of past that have excelled had some perfection in their natures which lead them to grow. So perfection does involve meaning in our lives but we should not take it as matter of life and death. Obsession of perfection is wrong

I have seen people arranged their lives in a perfect cycle and if anything alters in their life or that cycle they frustrated. We should therefore open our selves to changes because our life goes through them all the time.Changes can be fruitful and prove betterment in our lives. This is what I believe……

It’s actually good if we stick ourselves to rules but going all the time for 99% right and thinking about 1% makes wrong will lead us to problems. Firstly you’ll not be able to concentrate on what you are doing as that 1% is always running at the back of your mind. We are always taught by our parents and teachers that we should be perfect in very thing. They say this because they anticipate good results from us and their duty as they are responsible for our futures. I am not asking you to stop yourself from being ambitious but be normal and trust yourself. People have become IMPERFECT in order to become PERFECT.

Another problem with people taking perfection too much seriously that they think very high of themselves. One thing should be kept in mind as by the law of nature we are created equal by Almighty ALLAH. The people around us are just like us normal human beings. Mistakes are made and each time we make one we learn from it .Its is yet another step toward progress. We should take things positively and should not make blunders out of small mistakes in order to attain perfection.

Man since its creation is striving itself for the perfection. It increases its wants, desires and in order to fulfill his achievements of perfection he forgets the difference between “sins” and “rights”. These ideas which are embedded in our brains should be uprooted. We should be contented with what we have. Instead of” BEAUTY “Perfection is in the eye of the beholder and should be taken, not with what everyone else believes are perfect, but with what you see as the perfect you.

BY Shoaib Ghauri