Winning Attitude of a Positive Self Image.
What is success?
If this question were asked to a group of people, each one would reply differently. To some, success to some success is money; to some it is health or t some, success is nothing else than achieving goals and targets. Where as, for a large no of peoples, happiness is success. In short it is something that has varied meaning from person to person. And interestingly, success within a person does not stay same for long. It keeps changing by the passage of time. Success for a person ten years back can be no more success for him now. Now the question arises if change is guarantees success, then what is the change we are talking? It is the change in opinion we have in
ourselves. It is called “self image”. Someone said I am beautiful, “WHAT U SEE ARE WHAT YOU GET AND WHAT YOU FEEL IS REALLY WHAT YOU ARE. It are not what you are that holds you back, but it is what you are not!!!” Self image is the fundamental key to understanding human nature. Change the self image, and everything changes: the behavior, the personality and all the parameters. If this change is positive, it brings prosperity. If this change is negative, it reins the personality… If we start building up self image right from the childhood...It is most common to hear that:
I have a terrible memory
I am too slow
I am not a good cook
I am never on time
I am a loser etc
These are all perceptions about one that come the sub-conscious mind and are controlled by the mental picture that each one of us carries. Our self-image determines the kind and scope of the person we are. Our achievements are governed by our self-image.to subconscious mind, our imagination is our worked. Every success has to be dreamed first. It becomes the reality later. This is because the subconscious mind plays a vital role in pushing a dream to become a reality as it cannot differentiate between reality and fantasy. To be successful, the first and the most important thing are to require “The Winning Attitude” which only comes from the positive self image. Positive self image is the base to become a winner. So if a person possesses a positive self-Image and a winning attitude, he/she can climb even the highest mountain single handily…..
Guest Blog By Zara Siraj.
Brian Tracy is a worldwide famous salesperson. He worked for Microsoft and other big giants and he always achieved more than his target.
ReplyDeleteHe came to Pakistan for a seminar in which there was a ticket of Rs. 10,000/- to enter in it. In that seminar someone questioned him that How come you so successful? He says "because I'm the Best" the other replied 'How could you say that? I'll say that I'm best' Then Brian Tracy replied him "You are just saying this, you don't accept it"
Then he continue: "When I wake up in the morning, I say I'm the best so I've to wake up earlier than anyone. When I choose my outfit, I again say to myself that I'm the Best, I've to choose best outfit for today. After it going to office I again say to myself that I'm the Best, so I've to be earlier in office than anyone else. Afterwards while making sales, I recalled myself that I'm the Best so I've to achieve more than the given target. Given target is for everyone but I'm the Best so I've to achieve more. That's how I apply it all the time"
source: My MBA teacher